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What is Life Like in Spain? Timetable, Social Life, Food, Nightlife and Travel

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Life in Spain is quite different from life in the United States. Although some particularities change from one city to another, there are certain ways of life that are shared throughout the country. Two Language Assistants explain the main differences between their home country and Spain.

Allison is a Language Assistant in Madrid. She comes from a small town, Oswego, in New York. She says that living in Spain is quite different from life in the United States, especially for those who go from small towns to big cities. Moving from a place with a population of 17,000 people to the capital city, Madrid, has been quite a culture shock for her. That said, she wouldn’t trade her life in Spain for anything!

Olivia helps to teach in Murcia and she comes from Massachusetts. She says that it is normal to be working 50+ hours a week in Boston or New York City. People often work while eating lunch because they are too busy completing work tasks. Thus, if you want to compete with everyone else, it’s important to stay focused on work—which often leads to less time with family, friends and exploring hobbies. This is one of the main differences between Spain and the United States. Discover many more by reading this article.


Allison: As far as weekly schedule, obviously there is huge variation based on a person’s dutties, living situation, etc., but regardless, timetables here in Spain are much different than in the United States. Personally, I’m living with a host family and I cooperate with a school Monday through Thursday. This is different than in the United States where school days usually begin at 7:30 or 8am and end at 2:30pm or 3pm.

My days here usually last a lot longer than they did at home – when I worked in an administrative position in the United States my days finished at 4:30 sharp and I was home having dinner by 5:30 or 6pm. Here in Spain, I leave school around 5pm each day, but my night doesn’t end until much later. Dinner is eaten much later in the day. For families in Spain with small children, dinner is usually around 9pm on the weekdays, and later on weekends. If you’re used to eating at 5 or 6pm, this takes some getting used to. A friend who moved here from the United States and is living with a host family once thought her family forgot to make dinner when it was 10pm on a Friday and they hadn’t begun cooking yet!

Time Revolves Around Family and Friends

Olivia: Life in Murcia, Spain is very much different. Instead of work, your life here revolves around your eating schedule and time with family and friends. Most working individuals begin their day at 8 or 9am and end at 2pm. They return home to eat lunch at 2pm and after lunch; a siesta (or a nap) is often encouraged. A few get back to work from 4-5pm until 7pm. The Spanish lifestyle is more relaxed and encourages rest time and relaxation over many Americans’ countless workweeks.

Work-Life Balance
This is a picture of me and other Language Assistants enjoying the holiday traditions during our breaks at the school

Social Life

Allison: Socially, the differences are huge. When it comes to going out on the weekend, expect the party to start much later. In the United States, especially in a smaller town, bars tend to close around 2am. In Spain, people don’t even head to the clubs until 1-2am, and the sun is up before people start heading home. It’s common for Spaniards to party all night, and then return home in the morning with churros con chocolate.

This aspect of Spain is great if you’re a night owl, but not so much if you value your sleep on the weekends. If the club scene isn’t for you but you still enjoy partaking in beer and tapas, many bars and restaurants offer outdoor seating so you can soak up the Spanish sun while sipping on a refreshing cerveza or vino blanco. Even on a weekday, it’s normal to see people hanging out having a drink with their friends or family.

Travel in Spain
Here is myself (center left) and three friends relaxing after a trek uphill in Granada, Spain.

People Give Me Life!

Olivia: My host mother frequently says, “People give me life!” And it is true, Spanish people live for other people. You can tell that this statement is true by the generosity and hospitality of the people here. Individuals are more than willing to lend a helping hand or go out for tapas just because they want to be around with others. While I’m not as knowledgeable about people in the north of Spain, I can really see how social life in southern Spain makes you much more mentally healthy. Also, don’t forget, Spanish people are always late. If someone says, “meet at 8pm” don’t bother showing up early.

There are many groups to join to meet new people. I attend language exchanges every so often and always meet new friends. Through language exchanges, I have been able to join hiking groups and get together with friends for drinks or to play board games. MeetUp.com is also a great website to meet like-minded individuals with similar interests in a local area.

Spanish People Stay Out Late

I remember the first time I went out with friends to a bar. I returned home at one in the morning because I was nervous that my host family would think I was out too late. Because I am a morning person, I woke up in the morning with the rest of my host family at 10am. This was how our conversation went:

My host mother said:
– “Wow, you’re up early!”
– “I am? It’s 10am though…” I commented.
– “Yes, very early,” she insisted, “What time did you return last night?”
– “Oh, I came back at one in the morning,” I replied.
– “Woah! Very early… you should stay out longer!”

And that was when I realized that it’s normal to be out at bars and discos until 5 or 6am! Some stay out until 8am and get breakfast afterwards—I know, crazy!!

While it’s not my lifestyle to stay out very late into the night, if you are a true night owl, Spain is the perfect place for you. On weekends, most people don’t get up until about 10 or 11am. For morning people: in Murcia, if you go running or biking outside at 8am on a Saturday or Sunday morning, the streets will be completely bare. The city is all yours!


Allison: Food in Spain is excellent! Spanish diets are considered to be quite healthy, although high in carbs, with many dishes including bread or potatoes. Some of my favorite Spanish snacks include croquetas, patatas bravas, and tortilla. When time allows, it’s always fun to share paella. And, when in Madrid especially, cocido must be mentioned! These foods aren’t commonly found in most places in the United States, so when you’re in Spain, do as the Spanish do and enjoy all of these unique treats.

Jamón ibérico
Jamón sliced by a master cutter.

You can’t talk about food in Spain without mentioning tapas. In Madrid, nearly every bar or café will give a free tapa when you purchase a drink. Common tapas include olives, potato chips, chorizo, tortilla, bread with a topping, or a small dish of the house specialty. When you travel to different cities in Spain, you’ll see that the quantity or frequency of free tapas varies.

When you go out to lunch during the week, make sure to look for the menú del dia. These are fixed price menus that allow you to choose from a few different items and usually include a drink and dessert.

Dinner in Spain is quite small compared to the United States, often with a first and second dish, which are served separately. The first one is usually a soup or vegetable, while the second is typically a slice of meat or fish. Bread is typically served with each meal, and dessert is a fruit or yogurt.


Allison: Traveling is considerably cheaper in Spain than in the United States and in my experience, much easier. From Madrid, I can fly to a huge variety of different places for less than 50 euros. For example, I recently booked a weekend flight to Tangier, Morocco (with baggage included) for about 35 euros. Traveling within Spain is convenient as well – with busses and train lines connecting major cities, it’s easy and affordable to get just about anywhere. Since moving to Spain at the end of September, I’ve gone on many trips in Spain, to places like Toledo, Segovia, Granada, Salamanca, El Escorial and more. Outside of Spain, I’ve traveled to Vienna, Berlin, and London, and will soon visit Prague, Budapest, Tangier, and Copenhagen. Taking weekend trips to foreign countries is simply not a viable option in the United States!

Life in Spain - Travel
Hiking in Mazarrón (Murcia) with friends.

Conclusion of Life in Spain by Olivia

Whatever type of person you are, Spain will have something for you, whether it be a new favorite food you discover, early morning runs, 1.10 euro coffee, or outings with Spanish locals. Though a European country, Spain doesn’t function like England or other countries where work rules life. It’s completely different from the United States regarding work-life balance and social life with friends and family. Life here is very calming and relaxing and after living in Spain for a year, you’re guaranteed a new positive outlook on life!

Thank you for your sharing your experiences, Allison and Olivia!

11 Responses

  1. Totally agree with everything there and I laugh now at the culture shock I experienced when I first arrived – everything so new and exciting! Honestly it’s all still pretty new and exciting but doesn’t feel as strange as when I first got here. However, the biggest difference for me and the hardest thing to adjust to is the time! They eat late, they go out late, they wake up late….being an early morning person this has been super hard to adjust to…however now that Summer is almost here the days are so much longer so it’s getting easier now haha!!

  2. “it was 10pm and she had thought her host mom had forgotten to start cooking dinner!” hahaha so classic. I’ve been there and it can definitely take some getting used to, but honestly I am so accustomed to it now that I actually prefer it! I think when I go home next month to visit it may feel weird to eat a big dinner at 7pm.

  3. I love this article! I totally agree with your host mom Olivia, the mentality in Spain is definitely “people give me life” I have always felt welcomed by everyone here and there are always so many different events happening all over the city that I can go to and enjoy if I want to get out of the house! I have also taken advantage of the emptiness of the city on Saturday and Sunday mornings to go for walks or meet up with my friends and go hiking!

  4. The social life and timetables here in Spain have by far been the aspects that have surprised me most and been the hardest things to adjust to, however I wouldn’t have it any other way. Getting used to eating dinner at 9:30/10pm has been crazy, compared to my usual eating dinner at 6pm in Ireland, although after a while you get used to it. I also LOVE how social the Spanish are, even just meeting with a friend for some tapas and a beer is made into a social event! Definitely one of the main things I will miss when my placement finishes!

  5. Thanks for sharing our articles! I’m glad to share my experiences in Spain with anyone who has an interest in teaching English abroad 🙂 It’s been an excellent year and I’m excited to return next year!

  6. I also had to adjust to working in a school here where the whole teaching staff breaks for coffee at 11. Lunch is a big affair and everyone comes together to eat together.

  7. The meals and the meal times were the biggest adjustments for me. I would wake up and eat a small breakfast, but then have the opportunity to eat at school, too. Then, because my school offered my lunch for free, I always took advantage of that. Once I get home, it’s time for another snack. Then we eat dinner. About 5 meals a day, it’s no wonder I gained my “freshman 15” while over here!

  8. It was cool to see two perspectives of each part of teaching in Spain, I can agree with Oliva that the Spanish lifestyles extremely relaxed, and a huge contrast to life in the USA! Siestas and arriving a few minutes late everywhere are just part of the culture, but I have no complaints!

  9. Hahaha the conversation about staying out with your host mother!! That’s so great, Spanish people are truly the most social people I’ve ever met and they do indeed, ‘give me life!’. Although the personal bubble doesn’t exist and it can be a little frustrating or tiring at times, it’s worth the experience for sure.

    I can definitely relate to both sides of the ‘night owl’ and wanting to sleep, when I first moved to Madrid I was so up for partying until 8am and even got the breakfast churros once or twice! These days I’m lucky if I make it past 2am zZzZz…

    Anyway, early morning parties or not… it certainly sounds like you have both made the most of your time here from the tasty snacks to the extensive travels! 😀

  10. Life in Spain is very different from life back home. It took me a while to adjust to the different schedules and culture and to be honest, I’m still trying to adjust! I’m a morning person so staying up until the crack of dawn on a Saturday is nearly impossible for me. I also had a hard time adjusting to the food–which I can now say I love about every dish! While it can be hard adapting to a new culture, it’s definitely very rewarding and worth the experience.

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