First Impressions & Cultural Adjustments
Before arriving, I was eager to fully immerse myself in the Spanish lifestyle. I wanted to learn the language, try new experiences, and integrate into the local culture. However, I was also concerned about adapting to my Host Family’s daily routine—especially since I would be living in their home. Settling in with a Host Family was a major part of my journey, and I wasn’t sure what to expect.
Fortunately, my Host Family welcomed me warmly. They lived in a beautiful countryside home, and from the start, they made me feel like part of their family. However, I quickly noticed some key cultural differences. Spanish families have much later schedules than I was used to—dinner often didn’t start until 9-10 PM, and nights stretched longer than expected. Personal space was also different; family members were always engaged with each other, and privacy wasn’t as defined as it is in some cultures. On the positive side, the food was amazing, and there was always plenty to eat.
Navigating My Role
One of my biggest challenges was ensuring my role remained that of a Language Assistant rather than an au pair. While I was happy to help their child with English, I sometimes found myself being asked to assist while they were doing homework. Since I worked as a teacher during the day, it was important to set boundaries while still being respectful of my host family’s expectations.
To navigate this, I tried to participate in conversations in English and help naturally rather than formally tutoring. It was a balancing act—wanting to contribute while maintaining my independence—but over time, we found a rhythm that worked for both me and the family.
Language & Cultural Exchange
One of the most unexpected aspects of my experience was the language dynamic at home. While I was teaching English at school, my Host Family spoke primarily Catalan at home. This immersion forced me to pick up new words and phrases quickly, though it also presented communication challenges. However, it was an invaluable way to gain firsthand experience of the local language and culture.
Memorable Moments & Lasting Bonds
Despite the initial challenges, I quickly developed a strong bond with my Host Family. We traveled together, exploring different parts of Spain, and sharing experiences beyond just daily routines. Some of my favourite moments were our spontaneous weekend outings—these trips helped me see the country from a local’s perspective rather than just as a visitor.
Through these shared experiences, I began to feel like a real part of the family. While there were inevitable cultural misunderstandings, the warmth and generosity of my Host Family made my time in Catalunya unforgettable.
If you’re considering living with a Host Family as a Language Assistant, my biggest advice is to be open to new experiences. Every family is different, and adapting requires flexibility. Be prepared for late nights, different meal times, and a more communal lifestyle than you may be used to.
Most importantly, embrace the opportunity to learn. Settling in with a Host Family is one of the best ways to truly understand Spanish culture. It may feel overwhelming at times, but stepping outside your comfort zone will lead to personal growth and unforgettable memories.
For me, this experience is more than just a job—it is a chance to gain a second home and a deeper connection to a new culture.
